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YOUR FAVORITE AUNTIES Speak on Surviving Purity Culture, Weariness in Singleness, & Marriage Goals

Your Favorite Aunties survived PURITY CULTURE and are here to talk about it!

Nia & ShaMarian began a podcast to give the advice & resources they wish they had when they were growing up.

Today, we discussed deconstructing & reconstructing faith, leading a life of purity based on connection and conviction, and the Wins & Lessons of dating!

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  • @livinglikelyric says:

    My two favorite podcasts in one segment together. I was thinking the other day how I hoped it would happen and it did! Canโ€™t wait to listen ๐Ÿ˜Š

    • @tinad5502 says:

      Hi!๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿพ Could you let me know which podcasts they are on? Thank you!๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

    • @livinglikelyric says:

      @@tinad5502 Yeah! Their podcast is called Your Favorite Aunties Podcast ๐Ÿ˜Š

    • @penandtongue242_ says:

      @@tinad5502 their podcast name “Your Favorite Aunties”

    • @DearFutureWifey says:

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @tinad5502 says:

      โ€‹@@DearFutureWifeyOMG. Yes! I have followed the Dear Future Wifey podcast from the beginning. I have learned a lot, been exposed to new content and people, and laughed a lot. Keep this content coming! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ

  • @nialewis2017 says:

    I love them! โค they have a new subscriber! Love how they keep it real !

  • @tashaf4807 says:

    THIS WAS MY LIFE, BEEN ABSTAINING SINCE 1996 ,I 100% KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY ARE SAYING, I’M FREEEEEEEEEE

  • @jonsey_9308 says:

    God bless these ladies! Real conversations need to be had about religious bondage, unrealistic expectations and how to live real life as a Christian.

  • @intentionalgreatness says:

    This was good and they said a lot of things that ppl will not say but are TRUE! I spent a season of my life within a holiness church environment and within purity culture so i def resonate with this conversation even more. Glad i got to know God for myself and developed my own relationship with him. After a certain age your hormones will rage. If unmarried you have to have a plan for those HARD days that will come. The key is knowing that the moments come but that they will go away. Its a matter of riding the wave till you get to the other side of it.

  • @shawna7227 says:

    Praying for all single women and men that God connects you to your God ordained spouses. Stay encouraged ladies. โค

  • @DesCoop says:

    Single 30 abstaining and struggling these men do not truly want to abstain

  • @michellerhazeur2350 says:

    I was 37 when I got married and my husband was 40. We made the decision to not kiss or just casually holding hands or “extended” hugs. We knew a kiss (for us) could easily lead to other things. Thus, it allowed for emotional and spirtual intimacy to grow/develop. We did not want to “awaken love before its time,” and dishonor each other and most importantly God. These guardrails helped us to focus our friendship. My husband is the man of my dreams and my reality! God is Faithful! *** Thank you and the Ladies for sharing on this episode!

    • @sbahlepops5619 says:

      Beautiful story, women need to know that there is no formula. It’s between you & God.

    • @iamdenisecia says:

      This is so encouraging during my single season!

    • @WellnessForMoms says:

      Beautiful ๐Ÿ˜

    • @nursed.porchae990 says:

      This is beautiful! I believe boundaries are necessary. My husband and I didn’t start out with strong boundaries, but quickly realized we needed them. We ended up getting married after 6 months.

    • @joyricherson4570 says:

      Very wise! Kissing is definitely an aphrodisiac! My honey and I are very careful not to wake that love thang up! Sometimes that means not talking when it rains. Whatever it takes to be holy

  • @SwenyajMantal says:

    Oh man, I know they are having a fun light conversation but this triggered me so much right here. Born and raised in the church. Gave my life to Christ when I was 7. Purity class at age 13. Let just say, I still canโ€™t wear shorts. I struggle so much with my feminine, my fashion, my body and my flesh. My worst fear was what if I got raped and was no longer a virgin for my husband. This conversation was a whole trigger for me. I am grateful they are laughing and making it light. I was able to balance it out once I got to therapy. I definitely had to breathe through this one. 38, child free and happy single. Thank you God.

  • @onikaforever3332 says:

    This was a great episode! They are real women.
    Being intentional from day one will save everyone time.

  • @bhandrp4eva says:

    they are my kind of people lol I thought I was the only one struggling in life with these problems. Everything they spoke about is what I go through on a daily basis. I wish I had friends like this ๐Ÿ™‚

  • @mariemuhammad7983 says:

    I really enjoyed this episode. This was a much needed conversation because so many Christians donโ€™t really understand that God gives us desire for our partners. Desire helps us to connect and empowers and this can be done without sex, it is developed through intimacy as she discussed. Desire brings life in a relationship and lust brings death.

  • @ladytruckershawnaboo975 says:

    These ladies are wise and well-rounded, I have thoroughly enjoyed this!!! Laterras as always you knock these conversations out the park with heartfelt exploration!!!

  • @donderville says:

    I was born into a holiness church (Apostolic to be specific) and stayed until I “left” for college. Moved out to go right down the street to GA State but was looking for any excuse to break from that fire and brimstone bondage. EVERYTHING was sinful/ worldly, including TV, any music that wasn’t created by our bishop/choir, dating, marrying outside of our church, women in public without their heads covered, makeup, pagan (all) holidays, etc.
    Now, I’m in this super weird space of having my deep, personal relationship with (and understanding of) God and Christ but so mentally and emotionally removed from this recent (?) pop culture of judgemental “kingdom” folks. This is the first interview in this genre, if you will, of podcasts that resonated with me and felt encouraging as a mature woman abstaining and still expecting God for my husband.

  • @sharonstewart5028 says:

    This episode was everything. Being single is a struggle and you donโ€™t want to take whatever comes your way. Thank you to the two young ladies that have explained their singleness. It was very informative and eye opening to say the least. Now I am a single woman by choice and making sure that the next man that enters into my life is a man designed for me after Gods on heart. I continue to more into myself so that I can be the woman God would have me to be. Thanks again Dear Future Wifey for the episode.

  • @praizeyah says:

    The beautiful thing about these women is that they’re walking with God. My husband and I didn’t kiss until the altar, but that was the choice we felt was right for us. It isn’t the choice everyone has to make.

  • @user-dn8bs6jh2y says:

    Attire is not what people say, but it is what the word of God says, and it says for women to dress in modest apparel. It does not mean that you have to cover up from here to toe, but it does mean to be mindful of how much of our body parts that we show. Just because we have it doesnโ€™t mean we flaunt it, God didnโ€™t give it to us for that. I pray you ladies will grow as you go forth in your journey with God!

  • @raynetaylor says:

    ” I don’t have to do works to know that he loves me” YESSS! immediately when she said ” If he never did another thing he will know that I love him because of who he is” I thought about the Lord because he loves us unconditionally and no amount of “works” that we do or don’t do will make him not love us and I think that’s such a great embodiment of showing God’s love to others. such a great episode!

  • @kishiayancy9771 says:

    This Episode finna redeem that last one… this is the Dear Future Wifey Pod I know and Love (Respectfully of course)

  • @ran_tastic says:

    We definitely have to be mindful of what we wear . It has nothing to do with religion . If you want to attract a husband the way you dress definitely matters!

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