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How to Approach Women as a Beginner?

Do you hold back from even trying to meet women because you’re a “beginner” at the whole dating thing? Is it really hard for you to say ANYTHING to her, let alone a witty line?

Let me break down why this happens and what to do abou it!
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– Interacting with a woman you find really attractive can feel INTENSE.
– So intense that you’re “overloaded” and your system “jams” stopping you from using that great line you learnt from a YouTube video.
– This “failure” makes approaching women feel even harder, and creates a negative feedback loop where you don’t approach at all.

Let me tell you what you need to do instead.

– Accept that meeting women is INTENSE (at the start, it gets easier with practice!)
– Anything that adds to that feeling of PRESSURE will lead you to JAM UP.
– So you want to FORGET (or at least not focus on) any information to do with meeting women that isn’t about the first step, which is walking up to her, and saying something simple, like “hi”.

Now you might think, “but Hayley that plan for where the conversation goes after I’ve said hello is what I need without that I’ve got nothing. I don’t just want to walk up and leave…”

And that’s where I’d encourage you at this stage to focus on the first step. You might also be surprised that if you can let go of needing a plan for the conversation that what “flows” after you say “hi” might actually be good?

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