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0:00 : BOOM BABY! FINAL EPISODE TOKYO LOVE SHOW
1:00 : NO EXCUSES in GAME
1:25 : Today’s guest: Fumi-san 40 – Fashion Industry & Master Seducer ft Johannes & Caesar
3:35 : Fumi-san helped MLD with fashion + Fumi-san’s pickup journey
6:50 : How Fumi-san met his mentor + handling rejections
9:10 : When did Fumi-san realized he wanted more than 1 woman?
13:30 : Socially calibrating + Does Fumi-san have any book recommendations?
15:50 : Don’t go to Gokans + The Game
17:15 : What is the most effective way to pick up women + is Cold Approach dying?
19:25 : Fumi-san: Dating apps + Cold Approach is KING (34+)
20:50 : Cold approach is always stable + Cold Approach is for REAL MEN
22:10 : Cold Approach challenges MEN
23:30 : What is the difference between a man who gets women and one who doesn’t?
24:50 : Fumi-san: REAL men are comfortable around women & not getting used/played
26:45 : How many girls should a guy cold approach to be considered a master?
28:10 : YOU NEED 10,000 APPROACHES + When did pickup work for Fumi-san?
29:00 : Fumi-san: STUDY your failures and successes + VOLUME
31:30 : What is the most unattractive thing a man can do?
33:40 : Fumi-san: Talk about yourself all the time + too many questions + YOU MUST ADAPT THE CONVERSATION TO THE GIRL
34:50 : Can pickup skills be learned by anyone?
36:05 : Fumi-san: ANYONE CAN LEARN PICKUP
37:00 : MLD: You must be flexible to learn pickup + Men over and under estimate themselves
39:30 : Fumi-san: Average guy thinks he sucks
41:20 : When did Fumi-san decide to get a wife?
43:08 : Fumi-san: A girl who truly accepts you for you + It is good to be a player forever? YES
45:15 : MLD: You need an exit plan + work on socializing
45:55 : Does sleeping with too many people mess you up?
47:30 : Fumi-san: Depends on the person & your goal(s)
48:10 : Has Fumi-san gone out with foreign women?
48:30 : Fumi-san: Only dates & hooking up + nothing long term
50:50 : What is the biggest difference between Japanese women and foreign women?
51:50 : Foreign women are open to talk at the beginning & direct
53:20 : Final question: One piece of advice how a man can master himself and with women?
55:34 : Fumi-san: Body, Mind, Technique and Money (MMGF) + YOU NEED 2 of these to succeed
57:30 : Final remarks: Japanese girls are hot don’t come
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0:00 : BOOM BABY! Tokyo Love Show is Back!
0:10 : Today’s episode: Dating Japanese Women in Tokyo
1:05 : BACKGROUND: Mario – SLOVAKIAN MAN – 46 – IT Engineer
1:50 : BACKGROUND: Johannes – Half Austrian and Japanese MAN – 37 – Japenese Men Dating Coach
3:17 : BACKGROUND: Kadeem Wilson – AMERICAN MAN – NY – 34 – Film Editing (Former English teacher)
5:10 : Kadeem's education
5:25 : BACKGROUND: Caesar – NEW ZEALANDER – 30 – Black Rock Analyst (former missionary)
5:45 : Caesar was MARRIED & divorced + has a son
7:05 : BACKGROUND: Noah – Half AMERICAN and JAPANESE- 24 – Aspires to be a host
7:50 : BACKGROUND: Jacob – Half AMERICAN and JAPANESE- 27 – Pool Manager and Personal Trainer
8:55 : What is it like dating in Tokyo?
9:10 : Cesar: TERRIBLE & GET OUT of Tokyo gaijin bubble
10:08 : MLD explains gaijin bubble + Jacob explains Military bubble in Japan
11:05 : Noah’s CRAZY BASE STORY
12:05 : Green flag: The hottest girls DO NOT SPEAK ENGLISH
13:37 : Kadeem: Experience cleaning up in clubs + Club Approach STORY
15:55 : Johannes: Adjusting to Japan + Tokyo is good ONLY if you have GAME
17:05 : Johannes explains archetypes of Japanese women + issues making emotional connections
18:30 : Japanese women are the BIGGEST NPCs + COUNTRYSIDE has the best women
19:25 : Johannes explains Countryside to city girl assimilation
20:20 : Mario: Culture shock STORY + find your Niche
21:45 : How many years have you been in Tokyo?
21:55 : Jacob: 1-2 years + struggles with women in Tokyo
22:30 : Noah: 2.5 years + Caesar: 5 years + Kadeem: 5 years + Johannes: 7 years + Mario: 5 years
23:07 : HAS THE DATING SCENE CHANGED IN TOKYO?
23:35 : Caesar: YES: C19 + Dating apps have deteriorated
25:00 : Kadeem: YES: C19 + Visiting foreigners have ruined things
25:50 : Panel: Foreigners have saturated most dating spaces + apps
26:50 : MLD: Japanese women are like cats + Mario: dating is getting harder
28:38 : Jacob: Move away from Tokyo
29:10 : Johannes: Declining & GAME will help you
30:45 : Cities CORRUPT WOMEN + ILLUSION of choice
31:40 : Instagram and social media is inflating female egos
33:05 : DO NOT TRICK + Jacob: IG/TikTok fame + Noah’s dating experience
35:18 : What is your preferred way to meet women?
35:20 : Mario & Johannes: Street pickup
36:15 : Kadeem: Street pickup + Kadeem’s pickup strategy & numbers
38:30 : Caesar: Street + some dating apps
39:15 : Noah: Apps + Jacob: Street approaches
41:15 : Caesar’s approach stargety + HOW MLD tests his dates STORY
42:55 : What is your favourite thing about Japanese women?
43:15 : Panel: FEMININITY & EFFORT
45:30 : Caesar: Genuine desire + changes after kids and marriage
47:05 : Panel: Cheating in Japan is a passtime
48:20 : MLD: MANY women SETTLE + Panel: Dating older women
50:20 : Favourite things about Japanese women and why?Noah: Japanese women can do things for you
51:35 : MLD’s CRAZY Japanese WIFE STORY + relationships are not 50-50
53:05 : Jacob: They adjust and SERVE you + DO NOT PROJECT YOUR FEELINGS ON WOMEN
55:40 : Ms MLD STORY
56:30 : What do you hate about Japanese women?
56:40 : MLD: THEY LIE & being FAKE
57:45 : Mario: They are FAKE
58:30 : Johannes: FAKE & TRUST + YOU MUST TRUST & VERIFY WOMEN
1:00:20 : Kadeem: Fake + “No-No-No” thing
1:00:45 : Panel: “No-No-No” thing explained
1:02:25 : Noah: Fake + VERIFY THEM + Caesar: LYING
1:03:28 : CHEATING EX STORY
1:05:10 : Extremes Japanese women go through to lie and cheat + Countries need morality
1:07:10 : Jacob: Fakeness + NPC logic
1:08:45 : Closing thoughts
1:08:50 : Johannes: Get experience + BE STRONG to handle Japanese women
1:10:15 : Mario: Learn Japanese + go to countryside
1:11:05 : Kadeem: Be open & experience Japan
1:12:05 : Casear: Get out of the city and have FUN
1:12:40 : Noah: DO NOT DATE IN TOKYO + Do not fall in love FAST
1:13:55 : Jacob: Go to TOKYO for FUN + VET YOUR WOMEN
1:14:45 : Final Remarks
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Today's panel will be discussing the importance of sex, their preferences, and how it relates to their relationships
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0:00 : Boom Baby!
0:18 : Guest introductions
0:40 : Sarah – 26 – JAPANESE AMERICAN Woman
1:40 : SARAH WENT TO OBAMA’s HIGH SCHOOL
2:30 : Sarah’s dating life + why she’s in Japan
2:54 : Suki – 26 – KOREAN woman
3:05 : Suki does marketing for a Japanese car manufacturing
4:00 : Suki’s relationship status + why she’s in Japan and background in South Korea
5:45 : Emily – 25 – Half JAPANESE and AMERICAN + Tech sales job + Law school
7:20 : Emily’s relationship status
7:45 : Emily’s background + CULTURE SHOCK: Los Angeles (SUCKS)
8:40 : HOW Emily learned English
9:35 : Aya – 30 – JAPANESE woman + subscribe to her YouTube channel!
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9:55 : Aya’s background + working as freelance and content creation
10:30 : Working as freelanc
11:15 : Aya QUIT her JOB! + Traditional Japanese work environment is TOXIC
12:05 : WHY AYA QUIT HER JOB
13:17 : Corporations are DESTROYING JAPAN and YOUTH + work culture
15:30 : Overtime in America vs Japan
17:18 : Aya’s relationship status
17:55 : Aya is in Tokyo for Japan
18:32 : Today’s topic: S3X + Japan’s demographic CRISIS
19:45 : Sarah: TRUE for KOREA & JAPAN + Bad partners and lack of money
20:50 : Do you think 27% of Japanese women (18-39) are lying about having sexual experience?
21:04 : Sarah: IT IS A LIE + clubbing CULTURE SHOCK
22:05 : Sarah: HORNY HOUR (3-4:30 AM)
22:54 : Aya : Depends on area, too many options are killing marriages and women’s sex lives
24:55 : Emily: Yes it is accurate + NO PLACES to have s3x (logistics) + lack of knowledge
26:27 : Emily’s FRIENDS with ZERO EXPERIENCE live in Tokyo + Japanese men are NOT assertive
27:24 : Suki : Korea much worse than Japan with not having S3X + Japan is more OPEN
28:18 : Are Koreans more conservative due to Christianity?
28:25 : Suki: It is TRUE to an EXTENT + CULTURE
29:20 : How important is S3X in a relationship?
29:52 : Emily loves to be MENTALLY Stimulated + emotional chemistry in relationships
31:20 : Emily has LESS SEX in a relationship
33:05 : Aya’s situationship + S3x is IMPORTANT
34:40 : How often? Aya: DEPENDS ON THE MOMENT
35:20 : Sarah : S3X is NOT her priority + 3 times on a good day
37:03 : Suki: Emotional connection is her #1 PRIORITY
38:00 : MLD: Is foreplay important?
38:25 : Aya: VERY IMPORTANT
39:25 : Aya likes RECEIVING FOREPLAY + S3X is communication
40:40 : Emily is a straight shooter + foreplay is an ego boost
41:25 : Sarah: Enjoys foreplay + RECEIVING
42:50 : Suki: Foreplay is not a must
43:40 : Will you have S3X with your boyfriend if you don’t want to?
43:55 : Sarah: Depends on situation
44:30 : Suki: NO
44:40 : Emily: YES + Emily wants to get married (eventually)
45:14 : Aya: YES
46:23 : Is an orgasm important?
46:47 : MLD’s orgasm strategy
47:00 : Aya: DOES NOT MATTER + Orgasms are not important to her
48:05 : Emily: DOES NOT MATTER
49:07 : MLD & Panel: Women don’t care too much about orgasm
49:28 : Suki: ORGASM DOES NOT MATTER
49:40 : Is it the man’s fault for no orgasm?
50:10 : Sarah: ORGASM DOESN’T MATTER + emotions and communication matter MOST
51:15 : What is something guys do that is unattractive during s3X?
51:40 : MLD’s NIPPLE ICK
52:15 : Emily: Sucking too hard
53:02 : Aya: NOT Showering before having S3X + Aya’s shower story
54:07 : Suki: Too much communication + Too much lights on in the room
54:49 : Sarah: note using your fingers properly + AFTER CARE (VERY IMPORTANT)
56:25 : Final thoughts
56:49 : Aya: Japanese people don’t mention BLUE BALLS + Japanese guys being silent after S3X
59:10 : Aya: Final thoughts: SHE LOVED THE SHOW
59:57 : Emily: Final thoughts: She enjoyed the show
1:00:20 : Suki: Final Thoughts: Great show + Realized her conservative and Korean values
1:01:01 : Sarah: Final Thoughts: LOVED how similar values panel had + enjoyed the show and topics!
Today's panel will be discussing the future of Japan, how things are in Japanese society now, and what they wish was different in Japan.
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Today's panel of women will be discussing cheating in Japan and how it relates to this culture vs The Western World.
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0:00 : Boom Baby!
1:25 : Guest Introduction: Vii – Thai Woman
2:10 : Guest Introduction: Yui – Japanese Woman
3:10 : MLD’s been in Japan for 12 YEARS!
3:43 : Guest Introduction: Shiori – Half Japanese + Italian Woman
5:05 : Guest Introduction: Shiori 2 (Oshiri) – Japanese Woman
5:45 : MLD + Oshiri share a birthday
6:15 : Shiori 2 introduction continued
7:40 : Guest Introduction: Miho – Japanese Woman
9:10 : Today’s Topic: How is Cheating in Japan vs the world?
10:20 : What is considered cheating in Japan?
10:40 : Miho: Lying to your partner
12:10 : Shiori #2: Spending time with other women
13:33 : Yui: PHYSICALLY TOUCHING other women
15:22 : Vii: Allowing TOUCH & allowing COMMUNICATION with other women
16:10 : Shiori: If you know about cheating
17:20 : Panel votes: If someone cheats on you and you don’t know, is it still cheating?
18:50 : What is considered cheating to you? + MLD’s CHEATING BOUNDARY
20:10 : Vii: Hiding messages and lying
23:20 : Shirori #2: Allowing other women to talk to you
24:15 : Has a guy DM’ed you on IG?
25:01 : MLD: Cheating happens SLOWLY
25:42 : Shiori #2’s question for MLD: Is it cheating to keep dating apps? + DEPRESSED EX Story
28:30 : Shiori: Physical touch, intimacy and communicating
29:15 : Why you shouldn’t TRUST other men around your girl
30:30 : Why Shiori’s first relationship FAILED +
32:33 : Yui: Overly texting other women
34:35 : Vii: Is it ok to sleep in the same bed with a gay guy? + GAY friends story
36:50 : Miho: Paying attention to other women + Crazy ex CHEATING story
39:08 : Miho: Social Media is a BIG problem in the world
40:10 : MLD’s crazy dating story + Lying always catches you
41:45 : Most people lie on first dates + MLD’s experiences with LIARS
44:00 : Do men or women cheat more in Japan?
45:20 : Shiori: It’s in men’s DNA to cheat + Women are more logical
46:30 : Shiori #2: Experienced men cheat more + Women are better at HIDING cheating
47:10 : Vii: Experienced men cheat + Women feel guilty about cheating
48:30 : Vii: How men and women cheat
49:30 : Panel: Does BODYCOUNT matter?
51:05 : Shiori #2: You need variety
52:00 : MLD: Jelly experiment analogy + issue with having too much variety
53:23 : Shiori #2: The importance of having good and bad relationships
54:05 : Yui: Experience matters for men
55:40 : How many bodies is too many?
56:00 : MLD: High bodycount women are RED FLAGS + Do women lie about body count?
58:10 : CHAT
58:35 : Miho, Shiori #1 & 2: Why bodycount doesn’t matter + experience for men matters
1:01:00 : Vii: bodycount for both men and women doesn’t matter
1:01:50 : Can you FORGIVE a CHEATER?
1:02:00 : Panel: NEVER + Miho says it depends on the situation
1:03:18 : MLD: What if he’s rich?
1:03:40 : Panel: NO
1:04:15 : Shiori #1 + #2 are the only ones who FORGAVE a CHEATER
1:05:43 : Why does cheating bother you?
1:05:55 : Vii: Betrayal and loss of trust
1:06:17 : Shiori #2: Lack of consideration and emotional investment
1:06:42 : Yui: Waste of time + Yui’s FWB had a GIRLFRIEND story
1:07:40 : Miho: Emotional betrayal
1:08:15 : Panel thoughts on women who forgive cheaters
1:09:05 : Women LOVE this TYPE OF GUY + women who forgive trend
1:09:50 : Cheating + hosting (Kabakura) culture in Japan, and how is the panel different?
1:10:35 : Shiori: Only S3X is cheating at hostess bars + drinking with female coworkers is cheating
1:12:50 : Panel: Prostitution is cheating
1:14:00 : Yui’s thoughts on prostitution
1:15:20 : MLD: Men always want new girls + evolutionary biology behind it
1:17:00 : CHAT: Men are only as faithful their options
1:17:46 : Shiori #1 + #2: It doesn’t matter, he’ll be loyal if he likes you
1:20:30 : Yui: Depends on his self esteem
1:21:00 : MLD: Men are as faithful as their options
1:21:50 : The REALITY of most men
1:22:10 : Panel’s final thoughts
1:24:27 : MLD: Final remarks
Today we are joined by a panel of ladies who live in Japan to talk about what ASIAN women like in a man, what standards do they have for a boyfriend, husband, lover, and much more!